Inner strength is more important than anything else.
it is said that everyone has 5000 conversations with themselves every day, most of which deny themselves, for example:
I'm bad, I can't, I can't, I'm terrible.
A person whose heart is not strong, life is full of rough seas, and no matter how small it is, it will be infinitely magnified.
A person who is not strong in heart always lacks sense of security in his heart, has great emotional ups and downs, and is easily influenced by the outside world.
A person who is not strong in heart either pays special attention to other people's opinions or lives in the eyes and tongues of others.
of course, inner strength is not an innate ability, but is slowly honed in the acquired experience.
in this life, as long as you have a cocoon in your hand and a sword in your heart, there is no need to be afraid.
people can stand in the crowd only if they are strong in the heart.
you may not be good, but you must make yourself strong inside.
A person with a strong heart
always temper yourself in adversity
A man who is really strong in heart is not what he conquers, but what he can bear.
as Confucius said:
"the true inner strength is not the courage of struggle, but the courage of saints who are suitable for times of great adversity and are not afraid."
A man's strong heart stems from his deep understanding of the mysteries of destiny and his ability to be as calm as water.
this is the case of Mr. Yang Jiang, a famous writer.
after the ups and downs of life, she can still live in peace, fullness, optimism and arrogance.
even though she has been suppressed and humiliated, she is still strong in the face and props up a day for herself with a strong heart.
people with strong hearts often bring their own light, even if they encounter setbacks and seem to fall into the dark, they can still slowly find their way.
think of a sentence from Cai Gentan:
"everyone delights in prosperity, but a gentleman delights in adversity."
A person with a really strong heart can face difficulties, overcome fears at the bottom of his heart, and learn to listen to his destiny.
in the face of the trough of adversity, we still maintain an optimistic, peaceful and confident attitude, neither happy nor sad, not surprised or disgruntled, and watch the flowers blossom in front of the door.
A person with a strong heart
won't care about other people's comments
A person who is really strong in heart will not prove himself through the evaluation of the outside world, let alone live in the evaluation of others.
as Professor Chen Guo of Fudan University said:
"I am amorous and at peace with the rest of the world."
in this world, if some people like you, there must be some people who don't like you; if some people understand you, there must be some people who can't understand you.
you can't satisfy everyone, so why do you have to wronge yourself for others?
in the movie the Life of the abandoned Pine Nut, the heroine Matsuko has been living in the evaluation of others for 53 years, living to please others.
from the little girl who flattered her father to the old woman who died in a sad way, Songzi's life was really startling.
it is a kind of wisdom to learn not to live in the comments of others.
do you still remember the big Peng in Zhuangzi's "carefree Journey"?
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when Dapeng was going to fly thousands of miles to the South China Sea, the cicada and Xuedove ridiculed it and said:
"We fly hard and stop when we encounter elm and sandalwood trees. Sometimes we can't fly up and just fall to the ground. Why should we fly 90,000 miles to the South China Sea?"
"the little knows better than the big, and the young is not as good as the big one."
other people's yardstick is not your yardstick, everyone's world is different, the pursuit of nature is different.
therefore, do not live in the comments of others. Your life is never for others to see. It is more important to be happy than anything else.
A person with a strong heart
never afraid of being alone
Lin Huiyin once said:
"the real calm is not to avoid the hustle and bustle of cars and horses, but to build hedges and plant chrysanthemums in your heart."
A person with a strong heart can withstand loneliness because they know what they really want and how to take care of their inner needs.
in Chinese kung fu, there is a well-known way of practice-"isolation".
for example, Zhang Sanfeng, the elder of martial arts, realized Taijijian and Taijiquan through closed practice. The ancestor of Dharma also faced the wall and practiced alone for nine years, and finally got the road of enlightenment.
as one writer said:
"the road of spiritual practice is always lonely, because wisdom must come from loneliness."
it is rumored that when Zhuge Liang was 15 years old, he went to Xiangyang with master to visit Liu Biao, but Liu Biao was rather stupid and incompetent.
Zhuge Liang saw that Liu Biao was not the master of the world, so he chose to live in seclusion and study hard.
Zhuge Liang, who could not display his talents, lived in seclusion for ten years, during which time he made a wide range of celebrities in the south of the Yangtze River and paid close attention to the development of the world situation.
later, under the introduction of Xu Shu, Liu Bei invited him out of the mountain three times, and Zhuge Liang was able to give full play to his ambition.
A person with a strong heart is often needlessly lonely, willing to be lonely, and good at cultivating himself in solitude.
"you were born with wings, why do you want to crawl all your life, shaped like insects and ants?"
Life is hard, but as long as we are strong inside, we can overcome all difficulties and obstacles.
maybe we can't be great men, but each of us can be a strong person inside.
A person with a strong heart can dilute all pain and sadness, face his own shortcomings and move forward bravely.
it can be said that all sources of a person's happiness come from his strong heart.
so be a strong person in your heart.
believe that your world is as beautiful as your heart is strong.